Fleshlight Warmers: making your pocket pussy more lifelike
While some people may be into fucking a lukewarm or even cold Fleshlight, most people will prefer one that’s closer to body temperature. There are different ways to warm sex toys for men, and it’s important to know the pros and cons of each. And remember, anything that works for a Fleshlight will also work for an onahole or pocket pussy!
Using hot water to warm up Fleshlight
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A common method to warm up a Fleshlight is to submerge it in hot water. This works fairly well, especially if you remove the outer casing first (if you’re using a sex toy that has one). Be sure to use water that isn’t too hot, since overheating can shorten your toy’s life span.
It is an easy method, and one you don’t need to buy anything special to do, which makes it the cheapest option to warm your Fleshlight
However, one downside is that the heating starts on the outside, which means it takes longer to reach the core. You also have to squeeze the wet sleeve insert back into the casing before use, which isn’t very erotic. As a last negative point, you might get water inside your Fleshlight, diluting the personal lubricant you are using.
A last point to note is that using hot water is inconvenient or simply impossible with larger sex toys like onahips or sex dolls. You need a very large tub, and it will take a long time - long enough that you may need to replace the water because it’s cooled down.
Using a special Fleshlight warmer Fleshlight warmer USB
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A Fleshlight warmer, also called a sex toy heater, is a small tool designed specifically for the job. One end plugs into a USB port, and the other side can be inserted into your pocket pussy.
This is a very quick and easy method: if you insert the warmer with a little bit of lubricant your sex toy will heat up in minutes. When you pull the warmer out, you are ready to go! Even the lube is already heated up. It is also very safe because Fleshlight warmers have a thermostat that keeps them from reaching too-high temperatures. This prevents damage to your sex toys, and keeps you from having an unpleasantly hot surprise.
One downside is that you need to be near an outlet or computer to warm your Fleshlight this way. It also isn’t free. Then again, if the safe method means your expensive sex toys last longer, it’s well worth the money!
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Electric blanket to heat up sex toys
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One recommendation you sometimes see is to use an electric blanket. You can wrap your Fleshlight in one and warm it this way.
Electric blankets are good at heating large surfaces, for example if you have a sex doll. Thanks to the built-in thermostat they are safe. They are also multi-functional: you can use one to preheat your bed on cold winter nights.
However, they are quite slow and ineffective. They start heating on the outside, and a lot of heat gets trapped in the blanket itself. They are also the most expensive option, unless you already have one lying around. Often the heat won’t even reach the middle with larger sex toys, so you would have to combine it with a Fleshlight warmer.
Fleshlight warmers: the no-no’s
There is some downright strange advice floating around on the internet: methods that can damage your sex toys or even be hazardous to you. Do not ever warm your Fleshlight in any of the following ways:
Microwave
Hot air
Pour boiling water into it
Oven
Blow drier
Frying pan
Stick to the safe methods described earlier.
How to warm a Fleshlight: conclusion
There are several good ways to warm a Fleshlight. If you want to go for the fastest way with the least hassle and the most safety for you and your Fleshlight we recommend a sex toy warmer. If you can’t spare the money, hot water is a decent alternative, though it can be a little slow and inconvenient. Lastly, if you have a big sex toy like a sex doll you can use an electric blanket with thermostat to warm up the outside, but you may need a USB warmer to get the inside up to the desired temperature.
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